30.21 – And of His signs is this: He created for you helpmeets from yourselves that ye might find rest in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy. Lo, herein indeed are portents for folk who reflect.
16.72 – And Allah hath given you wives of your own kind, and hath given you, from your wives, sons and grandsons, and hath made provision of good things for you. Is it then in vanity that they believe and in the grace of Allah that they disbelieve?
A shot occurs when a section of the DNA codes that make up our self occurs in the opposite sex in an extremely similar way.People even choose the animals they feel attracted to and own from the ones that are similar to themselves, both in character and breed. The cat person and dog person expressions and the mental tests related to them are come from here. Not that they were related to them before. But a person is attracted to what looks like him.
The best couples have been found to be the ones most similar to each other. Apart from those who look alike over time, there are many who look alike from the beginning of their relationship. That’s because we’re attracted to people who look like us. Why? Scientists believe we have a tendency to choose partners whose genes resemble those of our own. According to a study whose results were published in the 16th issue of the journal Psychological Science, the spouses of people with identical twins are more physically similar to each other than those of people with identical twins. So in other words, the more genes two people have in common, the more likely they are to turn to similar people in their romantic relationships.
Another study in 1999 supports similar results. In the study, heterosexual participants were shown a series of portrait photographs and asked to vote based on their attractiveness. But one of the photos consisted of the participant’s own photo digitally transformed into the opposite sex. At the end of the study, it became clear that many of the participants did not realize that this transformed portrait belonged to them, and that this was the photograph they found most attractive.
The most surprising thing is that the similarities between people who love each other increase over time. As part of a 1987 classic survey, university students were asked to evaluate photos of newly married couples and couples who had been married for 25 years, and to estimate how similar they looked and how long they had been married.
But some of the couples in the photos shown were really married, while others were just photos of different people of similar ages. At the end of this study, the researchers found that participants were more likely to resemble long-married couples than those who were newlyweds or unmarried. In fact, it became clear that participants were unable to distinguish between newly married couples, who were not married and who did not know each other. But couples who had been married for a long time were easily able to guess that they were married. One of the most important results from this research was that the portraits that were most similar to each other were those of couples who said they were the happiest.
SOME OF THOSE WHO REMAIN SINGLE ARE THE CHOSEN ONES
Bible: Luke 20/34, 36:
«Jesus answered them, ‘Men and women who are alive on earth are the ones who get married and they cannot die any more. This is because they will live as the angels live in heaven. They are children of God. He has made them alive again to live with him. »
4 The Lord says that to the eunuchs who do the things in this list:
5 He says, ‘If they do that, I will give to them these things that will remain in my temple:
Kuran: Ali-İmran 39
And the angels called to him as he stood praying in the sanctuary: Allah giveth thee glad tidings of (a son whose name is) John, (who cometh) to confirm a word from Allah, lordly, chaste, a Prophet of the righteous.
Prophets without children and people dedicated to the path of Allah are praised in all religions. People who managed to be chosen in their previous lives and remained single are childless. They did not come from their own offspring to marry. Since no DNA similar to his can be found and dedicated to God, His love can only be to God.
One can understand the origin of celibacy by looking at whether it is from worldly causes or from being chosen, whether there is closeness and love in his heart other than Allah. Everyone will be attracted to what looks like their own self. Allah is his soul, but he keeps his soul in perfect shape in the dimension of the merciful and the merciful, so he is attracted to the like of him.
39.6 – He created you from one being, then from that (being) He made its mate; and He hath provided for you of cattle eight kinds. He created you in the wombs of your mothers, creation after creation, in a threefold gloom. Such is Allah, your Lord. His is the Sovereignty. There is no God save Him. How then are ye turned away?